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Description :

To start this sex position, the catcher/uke will lie down on his back. Then he should proceed to tuck his legs up against his stomach. The pitcher/seme should then kneel and spread the catcher/uke’s legs and lift up the pelvis.

The catcher/uke then should slowly lift one of his feet and rest it on the pitcher/seme’s shoulder, next he should take his other foot and let it rest on the opposite forearm of his partner. The pitcher/seme may then penetrate his partner, slightly lifting up the catcher/uke’s ass.

Tips :

To stabilize the position with the to-and fro movement, the pitcher/seme should hold onto the catcher/uke’s thighs and buttocks. The pitcher/seme should carefully observe the reaction of his partner and adjust the speed and depth of the to-and-fro movement to heighten the catcher/uke’s pleasure. The pitcher/seme should caress his partner’s penis, rubbing it against the pitcher/seme’s stomach to increase the excitement.

The catcher/uke should keep his legs as tight as possible in order to increase his own pleasure as well as his partner’s. For convenience and comfort, there should be pillows under the catcher/uke’s buttocks to diminish the effort that the pitcher/seme has to perform when raising his partner’s ass. The catcher/uke should caress his partner’s inner thighs, groin, and balls to stimulate his erection further.

Upsides :

Face-to-face interaction makes the position particularly exciting for both partners. This also allows for strong and deep penetration, which heightens the sensation for both pitcher/seme and catcher/uke.

Downsides :

“The Stem” is a very athletic position which needs a large amount of strength and iron muscles to avoid early exhaustion. Caressing is limited and kissing is impossible.