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Fellatio is considered to be a male’s preferred type of foreplay. Saliva plays a major role in an enjoyable fellatio for it is a natural lubricant which can be exciting and gives texture to the buccal (mouth) penetration.

A key element of fellatio is to build up your partner’s desire without putting your partner’s penis into your mouth. You should start by kissing and licking around his penis, inner thighs, testicles, and then slowly up his shaft toward the glans (head of the penis). Once you are there, use your tongue around the glans, and especially on his frenulum, the split on the underside of the penis. At this point, he should be erect and extremely sensitive to everything that you do.

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Be careful with your teeth. To prevent hurting your partner, suck in your lips to make sure that your teeth don’t graze or nick him. Place his cock inside your mouth but don’t tighten your lips around it. Begin to make a circle motion with your head. The cock will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the motion.

A kneeling position will suffice, but it’s effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his cock.

The circle should be both clockwise and counter-clockwise in a slow manner.

Take his cock into your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue over the head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind your corona. Don’t just open your mouth, close it around his cock and slide it in. It will be more enjoyable for him.

Take the shaft of his penis with your hand, remembering that the shaft is relatively insensitive to most types of stimulation. By taking hold of his penis with your hand, you give him the sensation of having his entire penis encased.

Try twisting your head from side to side, making sure that you lips are moist and stay in contact with the coronal ridge. While doing this, gently move your hand up and down the shaft.

When he climaxes, he may want to push your head further down the shaft. He will try to get you to envelop his cock, as you are learning his climaxes you will miss the fine points if you deep-throat him now.

Instead, gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so that he can intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm. As you gain more experience, you will be able to tell exactly when the climax is coming and you will be ready.

If you place your thumb at the very base of the penis so as to block the tube, the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of ejaculation. If, at the same time, you suck vigorously on the head, you can delay the semen for only a few short moments. It might surprise you how intense the process is.

Tips :

Use eye contact while sucking his penis; make sure to watch his expression as he receives your service.

Lick the whole shaft of his penis and the ridge where the head joins the shaft, called the corona. This is the most sensitive part of his penis. Follow this ridge around to the underside. There’s a juncture where the two ends come together.

Use your breath to blow gently over the penis, this will get him warmed up and erect before you start licking and sucking it, but can also be used to tease.

Lick his scrotum or try drawing both of his balls in your mouth. Use one hand to circle the top of the scrotum and gently pull it down, bringing the testicles together. Place them into your mouth and lick his testicles. Most men will love this action.

Don’t forget about their penis, keep your hands on it in addition to sucking and licking it when appropriate, use firm strokes to heighten his pleasure.

Close your eyes and concentrate, if you’re nervous or unused to this, try some of the following: Slowly ease the penis in, taking it into your mouth a little at a time until it’s completely in. By doing it slowly, you will be able to overcome the gagging problem most will have.

Fellatio is not just about putting a penis in your mouth; you need to use your tongue to stimulate the head as well. Try alternating between sucking and licking with your tongue.